Sunday, 7 October 2012


Evaluating Intercultural Knowledge and Competence

I would like to begin my post with a short personal experience on the topic.
Three years ago, I made an insensitive remark while I was working backstage in a school musical production. My crew in-charge was a well-liked Malay geography teacher. During our break, we were commenting on the appearance of our school’s uniform. Without thinking, I spurted out, “the combination of the school’s polo shirt and skirt made us look like ITE students.” Almost immediately, the smile on the teacher’s face was replaced with a frown and I knew I said something I shouldn’t have.  Till today, the memory of this incident remain etched in my head and because of this incident, I learnt to be more sensitive and cautious with my words.

People begin to realize the importance of intercultural knowledge and communication as the world steps into the age of increasing globalization, but, being born and bred in a multi-racial nation like Singapore, intercultural knowledge should be something innate to us; it should be something we (Singaporean) all have to be imbued with.

Through the years of education and various global experiences, I learnt new skills and knowledge. This blog post serves as a good opportunity to evaluate my current level of intercultural knowledge and competence that I developed through the growing years.

Cultural Self-Awareness and Knowledge of Cultural Worldview Frameworks
I would like to say that culture, is simply a way of life shaped by a common set of beliefs and values. Like any other Chinese, I understand the importance of hard work and filial piety. Likewise, my friends from other ethnic groups and nationalities practice different values and beliefs deemed important to them. I would rate myself 1 or 2 out of 4 for cultural self-awareness. This is because, while I acknowledge that cultural differences are inevitable, there are moments when I find myself making judgments unconsciously. Stereotypes are never good representations of different cultural groups but, there are times when I feel that they reflect certain truths even though I don’t say it. This is a terrible mistake on my part and I am trying to improve my attitude and be more understanding to the differences.

I am fortunate to be able to travel overseas. The past travelling experiences had given me valuable insights to different cultures in the world. I know it may seem a little contradictory, but I am receptive to different cultures when I travel. During the summer vacation this year, I attended a summer program in China and I spent six good weeks there. During the trip, I learnt some history, beliefs and values of the native Chinese and this new knowledge had allowed me to better appreciate the native Chinese culture. Thus, for this aspect, I would give myself 2 out of 4.  

Empathy, Verbal and Non-verbal Communication
While I am receptive to different cultures when I travel, I have to say, it is difficult for me to empathize and interact with people of difference nationalities using different world views and perspectives. This is perhaps due to my lack of knowledge and understanding on the culture itself. Personally, I feel that the ability to empathize and identify with people of different cultures require a significant amount of time and constant interaction. Knowing something is different from understanding something. In my case, I do know that factors like history, socio-political influences, religious beliefs and values shape different cultures, but I do not have sufficient experiences to fully understand them.

Different cultures give rise to different verbal and non-verbal communication styles. I would say that I can recognize these verbal and non-verbal communication differences and I put in the effort to minimize the misunderstandings and conflicts caused by these differences. For example, during my stay in China, my friends and I interacted with many of the locals and we attempted to integrate better by changing the way we communicate (ie. Incorporating their slang, use local greetings and refraining the use of certain Chinese phrases that are common to us but deemed rude to them).

For now, I find it difficult to understand and identify with people of different cultural backgrounds without comparing it to my own culture. I rate myself 2 out of 4 for both aspects. Good intercultural skills and communication requires a good knowledge on the culture, practice and experiences and I try my best to acquire these skills.

Curiosity and Openness
I like to travel and I like to gain new perspectives. I am aware of my own judgments but I make sure that I do not allow these judgments to hinder my experiences. In addition, I make a point to value differences. What I gained or learn from new cultural experiences, I try to apply them whenever possible so as to have different takes on life. Thus, I would give myself a 2 or 3 out of 4 for curiosity and openness.

Intercultural knowledge and competence serve two purposes. It bridges understanding and tolerance between people of different races, nationalities and religions. Also, it serves to enrich one’s values and experiences.  If everyone exercises some form of intercultural knowledge and communication, we would be able to accept and better understand cultural differences.     

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  2. I think that you have had an amazing opportunity to improve your inter-cultural competence because you have lived in Singapore since childhood. Singapore being a globalization hub, a person meets with a lot of people, all having different cultures and slowly learns about them. And, although you have realized this, you still find yourself lacking. However, you are curious and are willing to learn about it. Therefore, I believe that all we need for improving our intercultural skills is to have a willingness to connect with people without any prejudices in our mind.

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    1. I agree with you Akaash! All it takes is that sense of willingness. Aside from our local Singaporean culture and slang, I hope that you too will have the opportunity to meet with people from different places. Afterall, Singapore is a melting pot! :)

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  3. Hi Bernice!

    I was surprised that you didn't mention Hong Kong lol! no culture shock? but to be fair, i didnt have any culture shock here.

    Empathy. Yes, it's very difficult to empasize with other people's world view. For example, in Saudi Arabia, women are still not allowed to own property. In fact, females seldom go out without the company of males. It was the father's responsibility to "take care" of his daughter when she was young, and it was the husband's duty to "take care" of his wife when she is married. Females are not allowed to drive! Because of the society's beliefs, females can only live a partial existence, always be dependent on others.

    I hear a story from BBC that a female doctor, who wants to marry one of her colleagues was locked in a room for two months because her father doesn't approve of it. On youtube, people say, "You don't understand! how can you judge our culture with yout culture". They are right, how can we judge their culture with our culture?

    but what if people in their culture are suffering because of this belief? are we allowed to judge then? what do u feel when women in Saudi Arabia protested by driving? Maybe their culture is really only THEIR (male) culture.

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    1. Those questions are thought-provoking indeed. I have always been interested in gender studies and I have to say, it is a tricky topic especially when it is coupled with religious beliefs. It is difficult for outsiders like us to understand their intentions even though the actions are seemingly wrong through our perspectives. At the very most, we can try to understand but we cannot accept.

      But thats the essence of intercultural awareness isn't it? We respect and understand different cultures and the accompanying attitudes but deep down in us, we don't always those differences.

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  4. Ah but Bernice, Stereotypes aren't always bad you see. Sometimes they can work to our advantage. I recalled in my first year, we had a few engineering projects. One technical based project required us to get into teams of 4 and we were supposed to form our own groups ; very quickly all the PRCs in the class got snapped up, they were in especially high demand ! But when it came to the writing modules in engineering I had several email request to team up . All these were done without knowing how good we actually were at the subjects at hand ; instead they were all done by stereotypes: That the Chinese are technically inclined and the Singaporeans are literary competent. My point is ,the word "stereotyping" need not have a negative connotation to it. It's really how you perceive it.

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    1. Well, I feel that stereotypes on its own does no immediate harm. Stereotypes are bad when people conveniently misuse them to judge others.

      Nonetheless, like what you said, stereotypes can be useful sometimes. For example, when my caucasian friends joked that Asians are conservative and "nerdy", they do know that what they said are true somehow and because of that, they tend to be careful of what they say. Many times, because of the stereotypes we have upon others, we tend to form certain impressions beforehand. This can be good or bad but I choose to use them as guides to what I should not do or what I should not say.

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  5. To comment on ye chuan's view, even if stereotypes works in our favour; they are still bad since it allows unfounded judgements to be formed! Ya you might be perceived in a positive light thanks to a stereotype but do you really earn that? I know this is idealistic but the world is better off if people remove themselves from all the preconceived notions that they might have in their dealings with others.

    Oh and Yan chan, by saying that females in Saudi are living a partial existence, isn't that like judging them too harshly? Don't think it is right to assume that they are not living fully just because they are not allowed to drive and they can't go out without the presence of a man... It will be good to understand the reason why the rules are such. It actually has to do with islam's beliefs and although I think Saudi kind of pushes it too far, I do agree with the fact that females need to have special protection since after all we are the weaker gender. But I admit, in the modern context, such practices are cumbersome since women have their own set of lives to lead especially with them being more educated. However for all you know, they don't feel suppressed, maybe they even am grateful for such rules since it ensures safety?

    In essence, what I want to say is that it is best to suspend judgement and instead seek answers as to why their culture is as such .. :)

    Oh and bernice, I enjoy reading your post since you seem to be true to what you feel.. Not many people will want to admit their weaknesses but I find from this exercise, it does force us to do that and hence allows us to learn from it! Which is a good thing! I can relate with you on the part where you said you tend to see truths in stereotypes sometimes. I don't think this is unavoidable, humans tend to judge when they allow emotions to cloud their mind. I personally think it is okay to judge people based on stereotypes only if your actions that stem from it do not offend him or her in any way. For example if I see a group of guys at night along my route home, I would walk a different path. This is just a precautionary action and no parties are offended by my action. Also for example when I interact with Australian people. I stereotyped them as being friendly, gregarious people so I would always be all cheery when i interact with them, initiating hellos and howareyous. In this case, having preconceived judgements help in facilitating good interpersonal ties with others since you are prepared with background information on how people are.

    My Chinese friend once asked me ' why aren't there many Malays in NJC ( the jc I am in) and all the Other JCs? How come there are more in ITEs?" This is the truth and inevitably the stereotypical view that Malays are lazy come to relevance here. Some will see truth in this view but my stand will be that so long as they don't treat Malays in a way that is based on that, it is fine. Thoughts confined in our head are harmless!

    Enjoyed your post bernice! :)

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    1. "Thoughts confined in our head are harmless!"
      Nice one Dinah!

      I cannot agree with you more. Stereotypes are useful as long as it does not take offence! Thank you for your insights, Dinah. Your thoughts gave me new perspectives on the issue of stereotype. :)

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  6. Hello Bernice! (Woops I am late to the comments for this blog post. But nevertheless, it's better than not commenting!)

    I think we have all made a comment such as what you said in the first paragraph at some point along in our lives. And it only serves as a lesson how some opinions can cause hurt in others. But it is always a challenge to imagine a life that is not our own.

    I think travelling is one of the ways to gain some insights into different cultures, but it is also important to have conversations. More so than just observations, conversations allow you to create an exchange that benefits both sides. In one of my conversations over lunch with the chinese grad students in my lab, I learnt that despite them coming all from the same country, they each have very different tastes and preferences in food. And this varies from the sze chuan spicy to salty to plain and simple.

    Like what the networking guy in the Step Up module says, talking to strangers certainly beholds unexpected surprises. (okay, he didn't really say the last part to that, but you get what I mean!)

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